Swinging is also called “wife swapping”, which makes it sound more like a game show than anything else. That would be a fun game show, though, a game show where the objective or goal as it were was to swing with as many couples as possible before time ran out. That would be exciting, I would definitely watch that.
Swinging is actually the practice of which people in a relationship have sex with others just for fun or for other reasons possibly. Although, many people swing for increases in everything to do with sex; quality, quantity and frequency of sex. Some people do it for curiosity or a way to get out of the vanilla. Some couples see it as a healthy way of strengthening their relationship. Other people even regard it as a merely recreational interaction with others. Modern day swinging has many different things along its spectrum; they can range from spontaneous sexual activity, informal gathering of friends, planned social meetings, to sex clubs. Some sex clubs even hold themed nights. These themed nights can be go from uniforms, like police uniforms and doctors and nurses, and it can be pretty much anything, so there is a themed night for something and anything, there just has to be a right club for someone.
Swinging can also happen in hotels, resorts and cruise ships. There are so many other places where all this stuff can happen. If you are reading this in a hotel, there is probably some swinging going on in a room near you. I mean, don’t listen carefully or you might hear some things you don’t want to… or do want to. Respect people’s privacy people, we have evolved past this. There are many sites that exist that cater to swinging couples; some say they have over a hundred thousand members. Which is quite large of a community, especially if you are willing to swing because that means you have a few thousand combinations to get used to? All of that while increasing the three things of sex; quality, quantity and frequency. All of those people are probably very happy swinging the way they do. Studies have shown that swingers are happier in their relationships than in normal relationships. Sixty percent of those involved in these studies reported that the activity had increased the happiness in their relationship.
Swingers, in a similar study, rated themselves “very happy” at a higher rate than non-swingers and, also, that their lives were “exciting”, they rated that one higher than non-swingers as well. There are some people that object to swinging; some religious communities say that swinging is regarded as adultery. However, adultery is defined as sexual intercourse between a married person and a person that isn’t their spouse. Swinging is technically that, it is a married person having sex with a person that isn’t their spouse. Then again, you can always combat that argument with the fact you aren’t religious and, are therefore, not held down by the morality that is held by religions. There is also the argument that many people define adultery as cheating when swinging is actually with the pre-knowledge and, sometimes, encouragement of the other spouse, which isn’t cheating as cheating more or less implies that other spouse doesn’t know the person is having sexual relations with other woman or man. So, that throws the religious hatred of swinging out the window.
There is also health issues, one of them is that some swingers do it unprotected, they will go bareback and there is a risk of pregnancy and STIs. There is a simple solution to that, its practice safe sex and the problems are gone. There is no more issue of unsafe sex, pregnancy or STIs. Some people tell me that if you are going out to have sex with your wife or husband and you hold their hand or kiss them while they are having their fun, it brings you closer. You are sharing what otherwise would just be porn on a TV or a frustrating dream that one of you had. Swinging is a healthy activity that has even reported more happiness within couples as they have become older and kept swinging, I am not saying to experiment with swinging but I am saying is to always communicate with your partner and see what they want to do. If swinging is on the menu, it might make your life better.